Passenger disputes over reclining seats

 

As a flight attendant with over three decades of experience, I've seen my fair share of passenger disputes over reclining seats. Recently, a passenger complained about the seat in front of him being reclined, despite his own seat being in the same position. Another passenger threatened to punch a teenager for reclining her seat, while a third complained about a passenger being "in her lap" due to the close proximity of the seats.

The root of the problem is the lack of space on planes, with airlines packing too many seats too closely together. This can lead to frustration and altercations between passengers. However, it's important to remember that reclining seats are allowed, and passengers have the right to do so. Kicking or threatening someone over a reclined seat can lead to being removed from the flight.

Not all airlines are created equal, and some are taking away the recline option on all seats, mostly low-cost carriers. This is likely due to cost-cutting measures, as lighter seats without recline mechanisms can save airlines money on fuel and repairs.

After 28 years in the job, I've found that basic reclining etiquette can make for a smoother flight. Passengers should be mindful of those behind them and ask politely if they'd mind putting their seat back up. If you're a passenger who likes to recline, do so slowly and considerately.

While everyone feels cramped in coach seats, some passengers are more affected than others. Consider glancing back before adjusting your seat, and be aware of the space around you. If you're looking for more legroom, consider booking a seat with more space.

Ultimately, you can't please everyone, and someone will always have a miserable flight. But by being considerate and mindful of those around us, we can make the flying experience more enjoyable for everyone. Remember, there's no crying in flying – toughen up!