Choosing Taiwan over US

 

Growing up, my parents viewed Taiwan as a less than ideal place to raise a family. Martial law was in effect, and the threat from China loomed large. Concerns intensified when the United States shifted diplomatic recognition to the People’s Republic of China in 1979. Fearing for their safety and uncertain about America's protection, my parents made the difficult decision to move to Los Angeles, where I was born. They were part of a wave of Taiwanese who sought refuge abroad, with only a few returning home.

America symbolized safety and opportunity for my parents, who wanted me to enjoy its comforts. I had the privilege of a spacious home and access to quality education, far different from their upbringing under martial law. Yet, against their expectations, I chose to move back to Taiwan in 2020 with my husband. Last year, we welcomed our son in Taipei.

Tensions with China persist, and Taiwan is often referred to as "the world’s most dangerous place." Despite concerns, Taiwan has become our haven. While some may view our decision as privileged and risky, there's nowhere else I'd rather be.

Taiwan has undergone significant transformation over the past three decades, transitioning from a dictatorship to a thriving democracy. In contrast to the United States, Taiwan experiences peaceful transitions of power and boasts a lower rate of gun violence.

Taiwan's healthcare system offers universal coverage, providing immediate and affordable treatment. Public amenities for families, like designated seating areas for pregnant women and children on public transit, are commonplace. Financial support for new parents is readily available.

However, comparisons between the two countries must consider nuanced socio-political contexts. While Taiwan excels in family-friendly policies, its education system can be stifling for children. Despite America's advanced healthcare system, access remains a challenge.

Taiwan's perception of America has shifted. While it was once seen as a sanctuary, concerns about safety and instability have grown. Similarly, perceptions of Taiwan in the US have changed, with many viewing it as a volatile place.

Living in Taiwan has allowed me to let my guard down, enjoying a sense of safety that I never felt in America. Despite the geopolitical tensions, Taiwan feels like a sensible choice for our family's future.